Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Judgers are the terrorists in a world of humans meant to self-actualize


It is likely anyone reading my words on this blog has the lower section on the Hierarchy of Human Needs well met. That's an advantage of the age we live in today.  It wasn't always this cush for most of society throughout history.  We're making progress.  

Our Physical Needs of food, clothing, shelter.  Done.

Our Safety Needs.  It's safe to live in middle America for the most part.

Our Love/Belonging Needs.  Most of us get this met by a biological family or sometimes a created family.

Not everyone in America has their lower needs met, but I'll talk about what can do about that in other posts.  For now, I want to focus on the higher needs and why we get stuck in the rung right below self-actualization.

Our Esteem Needs is the step we must surpass to reach the pinnacle of what I believe to be our raison d'etre.

Esteem is simple.  It is respect for others and respect for self. It cannot be accomplished in an atmosphere of lies or intolerance of the individual's right to sovereignty of being.  Intolerance and judgment presents great pressure. Many choose to project an inauthentic self because that seems safer to the psyche. 

Imagine being a gay man in a pretend marriage to a woman for appearances.  Imagine being stuck in that life of lies due to judgment and/or fear of judgment.  Judgment is a form of social terrorism.

Christ strongly suggests more than once that we not judge.  It impedes self-actualization.

Love instead of judge.



Melyssa Hubbard is the author of Spanking City Hall: Dominatrix to Political Activist.

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Filling the Rush Limbaugh Vacuum at WIBC with Free Talk Live

Emmis, who owns WIBC announced this week they are canning Rush Limbaugh's show which aired afternoons for many years at 93.1, the most powerful newstalk station in Indiana.

The station is known for right leaning shows like Garrison in the morning, but with the addition of the popular Abdul show they are drawing a libertarian audience too.   Abdul's ratings are strong because he cuts it up the middle where most Americans are. 


You'd be hard pressed to find an American who would advocate for drone attacks, the drug war, mass surveillance or the myriad of things we get from the two big parties.  Most people at their core want freedom and realize what we're getting might be packaged as freedom, but really isn't.

I'd like to see more liberty minded programming, rather than another conservative talk radio program and the same old stale talking points for people over 60 with war drum bumper music.

How about replacing Rush with the hip syndicated live call in show, Free Talk Live








Currently WIBC airs Free Talk Live airs only on Saturdays, but the station has an option to air them live all week from 7pm to 9pm.   Air time filled with live content is a huge plus because Indy listeners can engage. 

With only subtle programming shifts, Indy could have Liberty radio every night.     

Throughout the years I've been on FTL a handful of times. They helped get my message out when I fought local government.  I adore Ian Freeman, the show's host. Here is an archive of interviews I've given on Free Talk Live over the years.  


If you want liberty oriented radio in Indy, call the Program Director 317-266-9422  and let WIBC know you'd listen to Free Talk Live. 


And guys?  You will love FTL's "Shrine of Female Listeners"   There's an old picture of me in there somewhere. 


Melyssa Hubbard, is a former dominatrix who won the first national Tea Party Prize.  She is the author of Spanking City Hall, published by IBJ Books, an arm of the Indianapolis Business Journal.


Monday, April 13, 2015

Self-Actualization & Jesus


My journey led to self-actualization. Today my work focuses on advancing self-actualization in others.  

Jesus said, "Ye are gods."  (John 10:34)

He also told us to not be afraid.

I take him at his word. 





Melyssa Hubbard is the author of Spanking City Hall, the true story of how a professional dominatrix won America's first national tea party prize. She blogs at IndianaTeaParty.com 



Sunday, April 12, 2015

Indy's Chicks on The Right Shamelessly Trash Gwyneth Paltrow For Struggle of Poor to Eat

I met the Chicks on The Right last year at The Indiana Historical Society's author fair . . . and I genuinely like the ladies.  They are beautiful, strong, smart, and very bold.  They are examples of Self-Actualized women.

This post is not to discredit their work, but hopefully to inspire them to use their well-earned media platform to change the cultural conversation.  Why not look at ways society and culture can elevate the poor toward the path of Self-Actualization instead? 




Why are they trashing Gwyneth Paltrow's tweet highlighting the struggle some of our fellow Americans have just to eat?   

Ah yes. Another rich celebrity pretending that they're so in touch with regular Americans. It’s so cute.

I love Paltrow's tweet because it illustrates how $29 in food subsidies (our tax dollars) can be responsibly spent.  


I'd rather they talk about nutrition, not slam Paltrow for naming her daughter Apple.

They labeled her a 'food snob'.

As taxpayers, we owe it to our poor in America to all become food snobs sooner than later.  I'd argue that good nutrition is the foundation building material of good citizens.

I consider myself a food snob, because I prefer densely nutritious food and believe our tax dollars should be appropriated only for whole foods and that these foods should be made widely available in the inner cities.   Fresh healthy foods would show up in abundance in our inner cities, IF that was the only thing SNAP dollars could buy. 

If we want to advance all members of society we MUST assist the lower needs on the hierarchy of human Self-Actualization.

Our city's poor have little to no chance of Self-actualization unless their lower needs are met.  Let's look at lower needs.

Food, Clothing, Shelter   <--threatened
Safety Needs   <--threatened
Love/Belonging Needs   <--threatened

Because the lower needs of America's poor are not met, they have no chance to move up the hierarchy. 

Esteem Needs   <--respect for self, respect for others
Self-Actualization   <--Maslow said only 2% of the population achieves it. 

Food is listed first, before clothing and shelter.  What passes for food that our government allows tax dollars to be spent on is criminal because studies conclusively show that healthy developing brains need solid nutritional support.  What we're feeding our inner city poor is leading to bigger problems down the road like cancer, diabetes and heart disease.  Not to mention a myriad of psychological disorders which stem from malnutrition.

Calories do not equate to nutrition.  A diet of junk food leads to malnutrition.

Corporations like the one who manufactures Rockstar Energy drinks spend big bucks to lobby for our EBT dollars to be spent on their poisons.  Go after Rockstar, ladies!  Go after the chips, sugary snacks and corn syrup-laden beverages we are pumping into our country's poor!

This is where the discussion should be.  Paltrow's tweet illustrates a responsible way to spend the assistance on nutritional foods and just how hard that struggle is.  I commend her for it. 



I wish Chicks on The Right would instead turn the discussion to the ridiculous burdensome things government spends our money on like huge federal bureaucracies and allowances for nutritional supplemental dollars to be spent on junk foods.   



Melyssa Hubbard is the author of Spanking City Hall, the true story of how a professional dominatrix founded the Indiana Tea Party as a non-partisan movement and won America's first national Tea Party prize.  She is the founder and organizer of IndianaTeaParty.com






Saturday, April 11, 2015

Support The Fair Tax Because No One "Wins" At Taxes



With more than 60,000 pages of IRS code, how can anyone claim Americans "win" at taxes?   I've filed with TaxAct for the past several years.  This year they employed social media buttons in a campaign to make folks feel like it's a win.

In 2007, the Indiana Tea Party movement was formed in response to outrageous taxes.  The central activists are supporters of The Fair Tax Act in Congress.   One of our primary goals was to put the Fair Tax into our local media.  We achieved that goal.

If you think it is time to abolish the IRS and replace our income tax system with transparent taxation, then please urge your congressperson to co-sign the Fair Tax Act.


Melyssa Hubbard


Friday, April 10, 2015

Indiana Tea Party Founders Support Both LGBT Rights & Religious Freedom

The first Indiana Tea Party 
 Broad Ripple Canal in Indianapolis
July 28, 2007 


In 2007, The Indiana Tea Party was formed by me and some of my libertarian friends who were activists for FairTax.org.   In the beginning it was me, Sean Shepard and Andy Horning who did most of the heavy lifting for the first event on July 4, 2007 at The Governor's Mansion in Indianapolis.

Yes, I was a dominatrix just a year before we launched the cultural movement which changed the course of local politics in Indiana and caused the biggest political upset in our state's history.  I tell the whole story in my book, Spanking City Hall, but here's a short synopsis.

Indiana property taxes were ordered to be reassessed and local government botched the job and taxes skyrocketed.  Imagine your monthly bill going up $1000!  There were people affected that severely.

About 500 people showed up at the first rally I organized in just three days riding house to house on my bicycle. There was no Facebook or Twitter that year.  Not only did neighbors show up (some with real pitchforks) so did every Indy television station and the Indy Star. There was so much media, that I started my first blog the next day to document it all -- Hoosiers For Fair Taxation.

I'd love to say throwing a Tea Party was my idea, but it wasn't.   I have to give credit to a gentleman in the crowd who shouted, "We need a tea party!"

He had me at 'party'.  I love throwing parties, so I decided the next rally would be called a Tea Party. And that's how it formed.

The movement, via cultural activism, was designed to put the power in the hands of The People. We were careful to make sure it was non-partisan.  Unfair taxation knows no political party and everyone's home, regardless of how they vote, was threatened.

While the original three of us are libertarian, we founded the tea party not as a political party, but simply as a party.  A big cultural party to play out in the media.  And boy did they cover us! They played the Tea Party on the nightly news nearly every day during the property tax crisis until the election in November.

Recently one of our founders, Sean Shepard was pictured in the NY Times  at a rally in support of LGBT anti-discrimination during the RFRA cultural battle which played out in Indy during the past two weeks.  


I would have been there myself with my big Indiana flag, but I was working that day.   For the record, I think we are evolved enough to have it ALL!   Personal AND religious freedom!  And I publicly advocate for both.  So do my friends.  I hope your friends will too.

If you want to know the whole story of how I applied my knowledge of dominance and submission in the treacherous world of politics, read my book Spanking City Hall launched in 2014 with the help of my publisher, IBJ Books, an arm of the Indianapolis Business Journal.

Melyssa Hubbard






Thursday, May 8, 2014

Original Indiana Tea Party Created to Stand for ALL of Indiana's People



When I first started the Indiana Tea Party, it was intended to be a positive influence on politics. It was started for all the right reasons -  basically, to deal with the negative effects of government incompetence regarding Indiana's property tax crisis which threatened home ownership of some of Indy's most vulnerable, and not-so-vulnerable citizens.

Then, the crazies took over.

All of a sudden, the Tea Party went from a non-partisan movement that dealt with economic issues to one that was taken over by religious zealots who use ultra-conservative social issues to divide and conquer those whose beliefs are different than theirs.

There are so many ultra-right wing legislators in our state (and around the country) that want to use the Tea Party name to justify their hatred of gays, their thinly veiled bigotry, and their desire for a strict Christians-only nation. These individuals really don't care about the economic issues that were the foundation of the Indiana Tea Party; for them, it's all about their religion and their set of moral beliefs.

I stand against this thinking.

The Indiana Tea Party is nothing like it once was. Instead, they continue their biased and often hateful rhetoric, as Tea Party enthusiast Monica Boyer did with these comments:

"Church: it is time to dump political correctness, put on the full armor of God and jump into the cultural battle. It's time to stop caring about what others think of us and start caring about what God thinks. His, and His alone, is the only opinion that counts."

Friends, the Indiana Tea Party has become exactly what I never wanted it to be. It has become an organization of socially obsessed irrationality - and, according to some of them, their way is the only way.

If you are a Tea Party supporter, I encourage you to take a look at what's really going on. Our movement is no longer about liberty; it's about feeding the egos of a few self-absorbed ultra-right wing radicals who say that they want freedom, but ultimately want to control your life and your beliefs.

Come election time and in your everyday community activities, do the right thing and send these Tea Party "leaders" a message: "This is not your state. This is not your church. This is not your Tea Party. This is Indiana and the Indiana Tea Party - and it needs to represent all Hoosiers who believe in lower taxation, fairer representation, along with personal and economic freedom."

In Love of Liberty for all of Indiana's People,
Melyssa Hubbard

Founder and organizer of IndianaTeaParty.com 
Author of Spanking City Hall